Only When The Red Candle is Lit..

Only When The Red Candle is Lit; is when playtime begins.

We have a few simple rules for our playtime. Pleasure, rewards, and punishment are all previously agreed upon and up to the mistress’s sole discretion. We do invite others to partake in our playtime but we must trust them completely to be d/d free, safe, and discrete.

For all of you that don’t know what femdom (female domination) is: This is how our playtime works.

My boyfriend and I; both work and go to school and come home most days. At the end of that day; we typically kick off our shoes, make dinner, talk while eating dinner, then turn on the TV and relax by laying on the couch together. After relaxing; we both go in the bedroom together. We both know what could happen next..

If I decide to light the red candle, it means we both must assume our roles as dom/sub and playtime begins.. (if not, we just go to bed.. lame, I know right?)

My role is as the dominatrix or mistress; I’m sometimes loving and sometimes cruel. It depends on my mood and my slave’s behavior. I reward him based on how well he played and punish him only if he deserves it. He knows he is my slave (bitch boy) and he is here to serve me. I’m in complete control of my slave and he knows it. If he decides to think or act otherwise; he faces harsh punishment. He wears what I tell him to wear, he strips when I tell him to strip, he licks when I tell him to lick, he fucks when I tell him to fuck, and he cums when I tell him to cum.

I expect a lot from my slave; and he serves me well. When he serves me; we consider that ‘play’. If he plays well; he gets a ‘reward’. If for whatever reason I’m displeased or dislike something he has done; he may face ‘punishment’. The severity of the punishment is based on how displeased or what I disliked what he did. I love him and he loves me, this isn’t meant to be anything more than roleplay.

Our playtime may consist of:

Oral pleasure for mistress – The slave pleasures his mistress with his fingers and tongue all over her body paying special attention to her clit, pussy, and ass.

Toy pleasure for mistress - The slave pleasures his mistress’s pussy with a dildo, vibrator, or any other toy she would like to be pleasured with.

Sexual pleasure for mistress - The slave pleasures his mistress by performing sexual intercourse with her and pleasuring her beyond her wildest expectations. He must work hard to perform to ensure she is completely pleasured. If he cums too soon or does not pleasure her well enough he may be punished.

If he performs well he may receive a reward:

Blowjob for slave – The mistress may reward with the slave with a blowjob if she feels he deserves it.

Anal play for slave - The mistress may reward with the slave with anal play. That includes oral pleasure, toy pleasure, or using her fingers while pleasuring the slave until he cums.

Another playmate for slave - The mistress may reward with the slave with another male or female to play with. The slave may play with the playmate while the mistress watches.

Masturbation - The mistress may reward with the slave with the freedom to masturbate while watching porn.

Free Pass - The mistress may reward with the slave with a ‘Free Pass’ to go out and fuck another guy or girl for the night. Slaves dream of getting one but rarely receive them.

Punishments consist of:

Humiliation – The mistress may punish her slave by humiliating him by insulting him, degrading him, forcing him to wear girl’s underwear/clothes, and even put make-up on him.  

Cuckold – The mistress may punish her slave by forcing him to sit and watch while another man or woman sexually pleasures her.

Embarrassment - The mistress may punish her slave by embarrassing her slave in public by making him be naked or wear girl’s clothes/underwear so that others will laugh and degrade him.

Spanking - The mistress may punish her slave by spanking his ass with her hand, paddle, or flogger for as long as she feels is necessary.

Anal sex for slave - The mistress may punish her slave by forcing him to be tied up as she fucks his ass with a strap-on. He is typically restrained, lubed, gagged and forced to endure this until she feels he has had enough.

When playtime is over, the mistress blows out the candle and we go right back to be girlfriend and boyfriend. We live normal lives but love to play. If you have any questions, feel free to ask us (talk dirty to us).


K❤J